Podcasting kinda shined a light on how undeveloped 30+ men are emotionally and how juvenile our perspectives are around life, love, and etc.
In no way should Mase, Cam, and Stephen sound like DDG and Speed. Niggas can’t learn from these niggas with platforms.
Men are not providers, they just realized early that provision is a tool for control hence they are holding onto it for power.
Ask a man why a woman should submit to him and the first thing you hear is “I am the provider”
Ask a man why his wife needs his permission before leaving the house and he reminds you he is a provider.
Ask a man why he believes house chores are beneath him and he will remind you he provides.
Ask a man why be believes he can cheat but his wife shouldn’t cheat on him and he will tell you he provides.
Provision is just a tool for control, that’s why they complain about financially stable women not being submissive, it’s simply them not being able to use provision to subjugate these women.
before you go to bed tonight, remember this. you gonna be okay. you gonna figure it out. everything don't gotta make sense right now for it to still work out later. your heart gonna get back right, your mind gonna get clearer and you gonna find what really fit you.