@Faves987861 Same principle here, im married but my mother and father only met my wife not the others girls. Jola le and come home with something solid and not confuse the elders
@shiluvankuna Traditionally you pay lobola for your wife not a girlfriend. It's already past legal binding by that time. I have a wife, I'm yet to pay lobola. N/B: That's pure culture in Swazi content without the colonialists ways.
@Nomagugu_xo@shiluvankuna Maybe in South Africa, laSwatini nani. Ngesintfu lobola umfati /you pay lobola for a wife culturaly. If its not your wife yet its just a huge flex in a Swazi Culture.
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@SizweDhlomo 50 because his run had intense but was neither too short nor too long. Hit after hit for just the right amount of time. The others had longevity which is not as exciting for most of us.
@SizweDhlomo I fully agree and I have been saying this for years and I got labelled a hater. So long as I hate with my money on my hand not their's. Lol
@PrinceKaybee_SA Bayabukisa lobola isn't rushed. You can pay lobola 25 years after marriage or in instalments of say 4 cows , then 2 etc. Not money. Abasoloboli sebayakha tintfombi (flexing). Kulobola akusiso sikweleti akusiwo nembukiso.
@PrinceKaybee_SA Then would give umhlambiso to husbands family in form of blankets, dishes etc which roughly equated to the value of the lobola that was paid initially by umyeni. But now it has lost its meaning and more like trade or compensation. I'm might be primitive but lobola can't be cash
@PrinceKaybee_SA Lobolo were mainly done for gesture. The husband would pay lobola for his wife in form of livestock. Then years later the wife and her family bakhiphe umtsimba where they take the remaining cows from those slaughtered during bayeni and gift them to husbands family as umhlambiso