Neurodivergents texting back (unfiltered):
"Hey! So sorry I didn't text you back for nearly a week (again), my nervous system wouldn't let me open your text until I knew I had time to devote to answering you thoughtfully and thoroughly! But I promise I *thought* about texting you, saw the unopened text, and felt guilty every hour of every day until I finally forced myself...even though now none of this is thoughtful like I planned because it's all an apology instead! Anyways, how are you??"
Has anyone noticed that it’s less common for someone to tell you when to go to sleep than it was in the 2000s? It used to happen like every night except for weekends and now it rarely if ever occurs
여성의 ADHD 징후
1. 소음에 쉽게 과자극됨 (짖는 개, 우는 아기, 배경 음악 등)
2. 극도의 생산성과 완전한 무기력 사이를 오가는 동기 변화
3. 수많은 탭이 동시에 열린 것 같은 지속적인 정신적 과부하
4. 즐거운 외출 후에도 며칠이 필요한 사회적 피로
5. 에너지가 있을 때만 메시지에 답장… 아니면 아예 안 함
6. 지쳐 있음에도 늦게까지 깨어 있음 (일명 ‘보복적 취침 미루기’)
7. 쉬고 싶지만 결국 정리하거나 조사하거나 새로운 일을 시작함
8. 어떤 날은 매우 정리정돈이 잘 되어 있고, 다음 날은 완전히 산만함
9. 통제감을 위해 리스트를 만들지만, 오히려 그걸 보고 압도됨
10. 상대 말을 끊거나, 끊지 않으려다 지나치게 신경 씀
11. 집에 들어가기 전 차 안에 앉아 있음 (전환이 부담스럽게 느껴짐)
12. 지나치게 자세하게 설명함
13. 말로 들은 지시를 이해하기 어려워, 글로 적힌 것이 필요함
14. 같은 실수를 반복해서 떠올림
15. 눈 맞춤을 지나치게 분석함
16. 감정적으로 매우 민감하여 분위기 변화를 즉각 감지함
17. 누군가에게 메시지를 보내야지 계속 생각만 하다가 못 보내거나, 아예 잊어버림
YALL.
There is a charitable organization in Chicago that donates books to women’s prisons. My boyfriend introduced me to it!!!
Yall support!! This is AMAZING. Women’s prisons do NOT get anywhere near the donations men’s do. That’s why my own organization exists.
LINK HERE: https://t.co/QhhkTBQGAq
“I'm a dominant submissive in the majority of my life.” —Jill Scott in a new interview
“I'm strong-willed, but if I see the need to be quiet and listen, I will shut up. If I feel the need to follow the path, I will follow the path. But if I don't feel moved by something, I will make my own way. I will follow my own path. I have to be moved. And that's with everything. So I appreciate the time when I actually can submit. Now I've learned with grace and age that I cannot submit until I can see that I can submit. It can't just be words. It can't be an action. It has to be fair, firm, and consistent.
I want to be able to close my eyes while you drive. That's important to me. All this whole life has been about me finding and maintaining a certain level of peace. So I need to know that you are who you say you are, even when nobody's looking, you know, I need that.”
Full story: https://t.co/gPAsYMTy8E
Anyone else stuck in this weird cycle where work is so exhausting that your hobbies feel like too much work, so you don’t do them, and then you go back to work upset that you didn’t take time to do the things you enjoy?