One thing I cannot tolerate at this big grown age is someone who acts like cause and effect doesn’t exist. Yes, your actions caused this outcome, so why are you standing there shocked and playing the victim.
maturity is when you realize people can't give you what they can't give themselves, so you stop expecting loyalty from people who betray themselves,stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves, and stop expecting peace from people who are at war with themselves.
When a good woman has had enough, she moves in silence. She won't try to fix things anymore. She will just pick up her crown, close the door to that chapter, and never open it again. She will begin to focus on her own peace.
People be knowing they wrong. But instead of being grown about it, apologizing or taking accountability they'll flip the whole situation & act like you did something to them. I’ve seen people try to make me feel like I was the problem in situations they started 🤦♀️
“I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.”
—— Robin Williams