I hate it so much, I hate what it does to me.
It affects my whole mood, especially if it’s from someone I care about. like, why would you think the best thing to do is ignore me? That means you hate me fr.
I value consideration a lot. Because, If you really love someone, you consider them. You think before you speak, and you move with an awareness of how your actions affect their peace. You care about what makes them feel safe, not just what makes you feel good. If you truly love them, you think about how your actions will affect them
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont and i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you really ask me
I think you owe it to yourself to be with someone you're not constantly trying to change.
There's only so much grace you can extend, and there's only so much a person can change about themselves before they begin to resent you.
We’re entering a dangerous phase in Nigeria’s insecurity: terrorists have discovered TikTok and social media, and without realizing it, we’re letting them slip into our daily entertainment diet. Once their videos start getting the same attention as regular content, the line between criminals and creators begins to blur.
When we engage with these clips—whether out of curiosity, fear, or humour—we slowly strip away the shock that terrorism is meant to provoke. They stop feeling distant and menacing, and start feeling normal. That normalization is a psychological defeat; it pushes society into a deeper kind of apathy where nothing shocks us anymore.
And let’s be honest: the comedy skits about “singing a Hausa song to survive terrorists” are not just unfunny—they’re irresponsible. Turning terrorism into a joke, a meme, or a punchline reduces real suffering to mere amusement. Some things should never be trivialized.
"I fucked your husband."
The above line is the reason why I don't cheat.
I can't cheat because women spiral out of control when they have access to you.
I never want any woman to speak or think they can speak to my wife like that.
Cheat with sense
Learn or learn the hard way
The only marriages that survive decades are the ones where both people outgrow their illusions, not each other.
A few hard truths most couples avoid:
At some point, love becomes logistics. If you can handle bills, stress, ageing parents, health scares and bad days without turning into enemies, you’ve already won half the battle.
Rituals matter. Not the Instagram kind…the tiny, boring, consistent ones. Eating together. Checking in. Saying the difficult thing before it becomes poison.
Respect ages better than passion. Desire fluctuates…dignity doesn’t. If your partner can trust your tone even in conflict, the marriage will breathe.
Don’t chase perfection…chase awareness. Most marriages break not because people change, but because they stop noticing each other’s changes.
And finally learn to fight clean. The goal is to solve the problem, not win the argument.
Long marriages are not fairy tales.
They’re two people choosing maturity over impulse again and again even on the days they don’t feel like it.
I’m going to look back at the year 2025 and be reminded that it was a catalyst for me to enter the best years of my life. What a pivotal and lovely time I’m having.
I'm a big fan of the "GPS Theory" when you miss a turn, your GPS doesn't judge you, it recalculates. No matter how many detours you take, it finds another way forward. Life works like that too. You'll make mistakes, but your destination doesn't vanish. The route just changes.
This year changed my entire understanding of life, like the true meaning of love, friendship, and family; and I don't think I could ever go back to who l was.
God can never mismanage your life.
You have to understand and internalize this fact. Everything you go through is leading you to where you need to be. Trust Him.