Don’t judge me but please tell me how y’all get over all the hurt and pain and just plain mistrust you’ve experienced in past relationships? I try to keep an open mind but everything I’ve experienced makes me so guarded. I want peace and I just want to know how y’all do it?
Before you get married discuss: bills, parenting styles, religion, what beliefs will be instilled in your children, sexual expectations, financial expectations. bucket list, dream home, careers. political views and whatever else come to mind. LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH!
I genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you, I believe they treat you based on the state of mind they’re in. Some people unintentionally hurt you because they’re at war with themselves & suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.
“Not everything is a joke.”
And I absolutely agree buttttt if I need to make a little jokey joke to keep from screaming, crying and throwing up due to my misfortune and bad luck, I’m gonna make that little joke.
Hey guys. Women don’t dress/do their makeup nice to impress you. We do it for us and we don’t care what your crusty ass thinks about it. K, thanks. Bai.
I saw a tiktok today about someone saying they have reverse seasonal depression (happier in the colder months) and I’ve never felt more understood. Give me cool, chilly, cold, frigid.
getting married and starting a family sounds really nice but I genuinely do not understand how people do it
how do you have the energy to spend every single day of the rest of your life taking care of and supporting a spouse and, sometimes, multiple kids???