@fikaole Ahh, "I want to be alone" as in I want alone time with no interruptions, but you can still be around, just quietly so I can sort through my thoughts.
@denpafish you will increase your chances the more you explore and browse your interests or for the hell of it to break out of routine or a sense of mind for the predictable.
@denpafish Philosophically/psychologically, either is difficult. Depends if a stimulus/experience/exposure that is profoundly altering happens is hard to chance upon.