It is a man's job to set the TONE in a relationship. A woman feeds off his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She CAN'T feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.
I avoid eggshell type of relationships, can’t express yourself, can’t be yourself, can’t ever be straight forward, can’t be comfortable, can’t talk like adults, can’t be heard, can’t respond with love without it turning into something negative…
I grew up walking on eggshells, recognizing footsteps, tones. How to tell if someone was in a bad mood and to avoid them. I learned to study people at a young age. I'm quiet and observant for a reason. I'll read you like a book before we even speak.
As a healer or a giver, it’s key to learn how to be in the presence of others and not have to contribute to their experience in any way. Being hyper-available energetically all the time is how you burn yourself out.
Drake will benefit more from responding soon, cause the longer I sit with euphoria the better it gets, 3rd day listening now i cant stop sayin "what is it the BRAIDS?"
i’m so happy that God never puts me in situations where i cross paths with people i don’t speak to anymore.
months or even years will go by and i will never see these people.