as an adult, it is IMPERATIVE to make time for arts and crafts!!! and to play!!! in the midst of all the seriousness of grown up life, it's nice to be reminded that you are just a big kid
Put those charms on your bag. Write that fanfiction. Do that cosplay. Buy that nerdy thing. Draw your ocs. Enjoy that fandom. Post that video. Don't you dare let societies cringe culture stop you from having fun and expressing yourself!