@MichiMidnight Life is many. I rarely post here anymore, was surprised when i saw this pop up on a account i rarely check.
Glad youre doing alright, sometimes it takes that moment of getting to understand 'its alot' to begin to begin again. Doing that with music.
You got this beautiful friend
@KSLibraryGirl Even if pro, if politics can dictate what is porn, the safety of its actors (of which many are lgbtq+) and the ability of those performers to get care ..fuck yea porn can get political.
@Elli_Trans So, with my friends who have undergone procedure, it's always amusing when these come up. Cos when shown the pack is always immaculate, and when they're brought out its like a pro contestant on Iron Chef w/ their knife kit. Almost like they also need some kind of display block
@naurva_ I get that for a large portion of us we had sex shame beat into our heads 24/7 and it's a hurdle to clear
BUT usually if you can have a respectful conversation about needs, they end up being met or facilitated around o.o
@naurva_ 9/10 times dudes demanding these things or complaining about a lack of something have NEVER done any communication about boundaries, 'red' actions, or any baseline talks about 'what do you enjoy?'