It's strange that "finding yourself" has become synonymous with making terrible decisions. You do not have to act like a degenerate to "find yourself." Growth doesn't require self-destruction. You don't need a hoe phase, a divorce, or reckless behaviour.
You can find yourself by reading, travelling, creating, learning, building a career, starting a business, mastering a skill, or becoming more disciplined.
When most women are tired of the marriage and want out, some become deliberately rebellious, disrespectful, disobedient, verbally abusive, and start denying their husbands sex, all to provoke him into reacting.
The moment he finally snaps out of frustration, she uses that reaction as “evidence” of domestic violence and files for divorce.
MEN PAY ATTENTION!!!😎
La próxima vez que NO te guste tu vida, recuerda que todo depende de la perspectiva.
Tengo un amigo que lee 2-3 libros a la semana, entrena 3 veces al día, no tiene problemas de dinero y hay gente queriendo acostarse con él todo el tiempo.
Y aun así no para de quejarse de lo mucho que odia la cárcel.
Among the Bukusu, there is a saying, "A man who leaves his house standing, risks not thinking straight during the day." Wives were encouraged to embrace morning s*x because it made their men more productive during the day.
Morning s*x offers significant health and relationship benefits, including boosted immunity, reduced stress, improved mood, and enhanced intimacy due to higher hormone levels like oxytocin and dopamine.
But a foolish woman somewhere is using her biological tools to "punish" the man. Utashangaa.
Once in school, I showed my report card to my family, in which I scored 90 out of 100 in mathematics.
Upon seeing my marks, my family started hitting me, saying, “Since when did you become so smart? You must have made 9 look like 90.”
They kept accusing me of adding a "0" by myself, while I cried and pleaded, saying that I didn’t add the "0." But my family wasn’t in the mood to listen and kept hitting me.
Even after all these years, I would still say that I didn’t add the "0."
I only added the "9"
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