“arle isn’t masculine” people are genuinely the dumbest to walk this earth because they will unironically say shit like “she wears masculine clothing and has MULTIPLE masculine titles and had her animations changed to be less feminine but she’s NOT masc guys she’s clearly fem!”
@lha2tham so for me, i didnt leave him "for the sake of my identity", i simply lost romantic&sexual attraction to him. we broke up because of it and he knew what it meant to come out to me. id rather us be both comfortable with our identities like this <3
@lha2tham no, i had this once actually... we broke up. its totally ok to be friends and cry over the relationship. platonic feelings are still there<3 for me i did lose romantic & sexual attraction really fast when it settled after the coming out situation.