It’s a MASSIVE ick to see a man still being super friendly and nice to people who have openly disrespected their partner. It shows that the man has no backbone & can’t be counted on to support or defend their partner and/or future family. Eeeeyuck.
It is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. A woman feeds off of his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.
When I was younger I asked my aunty how do u know a man loves you & she said when he would do anything for you. That’s stuck w me ever since & it’s the standard I judge men by. If a man struggles to do things to make me feel safe/secure/happy I assume whatever he feels isn’t real
Place people in your life accordingly. I will go above and beyond for the people who I know will go above and beyond for me without a blink of eye. I don’t put anyone on any unnecessary pedestals anymore because no one is infallible.
You can choose any day at any moment that you wanna start a new life. Just do it. Fuck what people think or feel. It’s your life, do what makes you happy! Always put YOU first! Always choose YOU! 🫶🏽
This young man knew i was sick and not once over the course of 3 day did he ask me how i was feeling or if i needed anything. So then and there i decided I will never speak to him again. There is nothing to talk through when someone shows you their lack of consideration for you
giving a woman a proper pregnancy/post partum experience is one of the highest responsibilities (and honors) you’ll ever have as a man.
anything less is failing your child before they even arrive and become conscious. I wish every new mom a partner who recognizes that.