this mindset will ruin u. that part of her life is not your burden to carry, it's her job to fix her shit and you shouldn't feel sorry for the people who hurt you if you want to make it out of there with even the tiniest sliver of sanity
I’m the least competitive person you will ever meet because I simply do not care professionally, personally or romantically. You can have that role, that game of cards or that nigga. Idc!
Once you’re an adult, your parents don’t have to approve of your life or support your choices. Part of growing up is learning to stand on your own and live according to who you truly are, not who they expect you to be.
I'd rather pay $3000 alone than pay $0 with my partner if it costs me parts of myself or my sanity.
Y'all underestimate how expensive peace of mind is.