Life changes. You lose love. You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone. And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back. New love enters. Better friends come along. And a stronger, wiser you is staring back in the mirror.
If you love too much, you’ll be cheated.
If you speak too much, you’ll lie.
If you think too much, you’ll be depressed.
If you trust too much, you’ll be betrayed.
If you care too much, you’ll be taken for granted.
If you give too much, you’ll be drained.
If you forgive too much, you’ll be disrespected.
If you stay too long, you’ll lose yourself.
Don’t be too much because that too much will hurt you so much.
Sometimes it's not that deep.
Sometimes you just need to put some music on, get out your feelings, & get back to building your life. Two steps at a time. Analyse, but don't over analyze. Most days we'll never feel like it. Learn how to change your mood on demand &
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Flirting is cheating. Linking up and hiding it from your partner is cheating. Messaging others behind your partner’s back is cheating. Once you start deleting things or putting chats on DND, it’s still cheating. It doesn’t have to be physical.
Please carry your struggles with a touch of dignity. Venting doesn't always help. People treat you differently when they know too much information about you.
A lot of people don’t like you fr and don’t support you but stay close enough because they see your potential, so they can switch at the last minute when you finally do it.