Diganga.🩺⚕️

MD 🏩/ Chess addict♟/ Cancer🦀/ Sanguine 🐾

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

@GbengaWemimo I make mistakes, my wife makes mistakes; that’s life. We try to improve on each other.

When the dusts settles, it will then be a question of precedence. Some things must have definitely happened in the past, this was just the stroke that broke the table.

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

I just sense a lack a proper communication here(which can happen sometimes in marriage). If wife was aware of husbands fail-safe plan(and fully aware of the likely consequences to both husband and the family) I doubt she’d have proceeded to carry the work laptop.

Mistakes happen

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

Husband has two laptops
One was given to him as a Work from home tool by the foreign bank he is working with
The other was his personal laptop with him he handles his personal business.

Wife’s father died in Nigeria
Husband was not given leave at work to travel abroad
Wife was as given compassionate leave
Wife pleads with husband to please show his face at the funeral
Husband decided to take the risk

He mirrored the office laptop to his personal laptop
Left it connected in such a way that he can work on it remotely using his personal computer and travelled with the family to Nigeria for work

Wife was aware of the risk the husband took
The plan was to travel to Nigeria on Friday and return to London on Sunday
They got to Nigeria
The husband set up his personal laptop at the hotel so that if any work call or email comes in he would attend to it immediately

It worked
He was able to work remotely and he was in the UK on Saturday morning
After this he went to the burial rites, greeted members of the family and paid his respects to all and sundry
When he got back to their room he discovered his laptop was gone

It was not stolen
He could see from all the disconnections and wires lying around that his wife took it
He rushed to the car and drove furiously to the wife’s parent’s house to ask her for his laptop

When he got there, he saw that his wife had handed it over to her older brother who had connected it to some amplifiers to play some of their father’s Fåvourite music to entertain her family

He didn’t think it would be proper to disrupt such a solemn family moment
So he went back to the hotel and waited anxiously for them to be done and for his laptop to be returned.

At almost midnight, the laptop was returned
By then the husband has gotten two messages from his team lead asking him where he was because he missed some tasks and his laptop indicated that he was in Nigeria

He reconnected his laptop and tried very hard to do some damage control.
He was livid and he didn’t fail to say so to his wife
According to the wife he said “You betrayed my trust, you took my work computer without regards for my sacrifices and well being to play music in loving memory of your father. You could have hired a DJ or bought a laptop somewhere in Lagos.
You knew the risk I took to be at this event with you and you decide to expose me this way.
You better pray I don’t lose my job over this. If I as much as get a query, this marriage is over”

Wife said she didn’t think that far.
Her brother asked her if she brought her laptop because he had carefully made a selection of their father’s Fåvourite songs on a flash drive and would like to play it at the house after the funeral while his friends and family member were still around to commiserate with their mother.

She said she went to the room to see if she could borrow her husband’s laptop and met his absence. So she just took it.

Innocent mistake.

They got back to the UK and husband’s job was terminated.
Husband is asking for a divorce
Wife is saying jobs are replaceable, a marriage is not.
How can an innocent mistake be the cause of their divorce?

Husband says the wife has always been like that
Lacking an understanding of boundaries and willing to throw anybody under the bus to get her desired result in anything she wanted to do.
He had told her he couldn’t travel because his office didn’t permit him
She prevailed on him to take the risk and then destroyed his carefully built wall of protection by removing the laptop from its connection

Wife said she didn’t intend to do any harm.
Just to play some music with the laptop
Husband said wife is deflecting and moved out of their apartment
Wife is asking what the big deal is…

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

@abassajayi Many congrats Chief.

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

@oliveKubmite Many congrats Chief.

[Lady B - IYALODE OF X @mobola_ade]

My name is Zainab. I’m 27 years old. An SS.

That is, I live with sickle cell disease.
My parents are both AS.

Oh, they They knew.
They were told.
They still married.

They said God approved it. They said love would be enough. They said faith would cover the consequences.

I am the consequence.

I was diagnosed before I was two. My childhood memories are not playgrounds or cartoons,they are; hospitals, needles, and adults whispering when they thought I couldn’t hear.

In primary school, I missed classes so often that teachers stopped asking why. Some classmates thought I was pretending. Some thought I was cursed. I learned early how to smile while feeling different.

By secondary school, the pain episodes became more frequent. I would wake up excited for school and end the day on a hospital bed. I watched my mates grow normally while my life moved in pauses, school, hospital, recovery, repeat.

At 15, I lost my younger brother to sickle cell.
We were both SS.

That day changed me forever.

My parents broke down in front of me — crying, apologizing, saying “We followed faith. We didn’t think…”
But the damage had already been done.

Sometimes I forgive them.
Sometimes I resent them deeply.
Both feelings live in me.

In university, I tried to be normal. I joined sickle cell advocacy groups, volunteered with awareness organizations, spoke at events, encouraged parents to test their genotype. People call me strong. They call me a warrior.

What they don’t see is me crying alone at night after another silent pain episode.
They don’t see the fear that comes with planning a future in a body that doesn’t always cooperate.

And Relationships?
That’s another wound.

I’ve been loved… briefly.
The moment conversations turn serious about marriage, children, commitment….they leave. Some are honest. Some ghost me. Some promise forever and disappear quietly.

One man once said he would do anything for me. He talked about taking me abroad, better care, a life without fear. I believed him. For the first time, my heart rested.

Then one day, he stopped calling.

That heartbreak triggered one of the worst crises I’ve had as an adult. Not because of physical stress but because hope collapsed.

Now I’m older. The pain episodes come differently. Less dramatic, but more exhausting. My body recovers slower. My fears are heavier. I ask myself questions my parents never asked each other.

I am strong, yes.
But I am tired.

If you are AS and the person you love is AS, please love your unborn children enough to stop and think. Faith is not a license to ignore knowledge. I am a proof to that

I didn’t ask to be a lesson.
But if my life can prevent another child from being born into avoidable pain, then my voice matters.

That’s why I’m writing this to you. Because people listens to you and this story needs to be heard. I hope that your audience share this till it reaches those who are about to walk by faith and not by sight, Sickle Cell is real!.

Adeyinka, keep rescuing lives, I love how you raise awareness and say the truth unapologetically, those who do not like you are probably those who wish they could be you. Have you met you?. Oh,I see you Queen Ade💪🏻

[PROLACTIN 💉🏃🏽‍♂️🩺 @prolactin_]

From Jan 1 2026, I need Nigerian doctors to quench their pathological need to move stuff on the TL.

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

Chelsea has been a sham this season.

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

Chelsea have nothing serious to over this season. So much noise yet so a heavy emptiness.

Shame

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

Sunday Jackson is free!!!!!!!!
Please share and let the whole world know!

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

@OurFavOnlineDoc Wow, thanks be to God Almighty.

Thank you Jesus!!

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

@Tyrese Amen and Amen.

God is great.
Thank you Jesus.

[The journey of A Christian lady @ThejourneyofACL]

What I truly desire is to be always right with God, have enough to be a blessing, raise a family that glorifies God and have a community of people who truly love me💛

[Funmi @Funminz]

This analogy is deep. Many are free but still in bondage.

[Wealth Coach Omiete @wealthcoachomi]

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[Meidas_Charise Lee @charise_lee]

You found the right person ❤️❤️

[The Disrespected Trucker @DisrespectedThe]

You may want to listen to this.

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

@ali_naka IPOB sha…

Nawa oo

[Diganga.🩺⚕️ @pockso11]

@Hybrid_Ola May the good Lord comfort your soul brother, grant you true strength and calm the storm within in Jesus name. Amen.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

To all the hustling men out there, don't say my boy didn't warn you.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

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