By 35yrs old (Man or Woman) you should know & accept that the world will value you for what you give it, not who you are - then stop acting like a victim of your age & life. People care about people that add value to their life, so if you’re a nice guy & it doesn’t change anyone’s life for the better… fuck that niceness. Apply yourself accordingly.
Corporate life will teach you that knowing the job is only half the battle.
The real skill is staying calm in meetings, reading the room, managing ego, receiving vague feedback, and not replying emails with your real thoughts.
We are saddened by the passing of Patrick Mukabi, whose art brought Nairobi’s stories and spirit into our spaces at Java House.
His legacy lives on in every brushstroke. Rest well, Patrick Mukabi.
Our heartfelt condolences to his family, friends, and the creative community.
Unsolicited career advice: Stop being a baby when you get feedback. Someone is sharing how they experience you. They might fumble, be insensitive, offend you, or even be wrong. Who cares? Say "thank you," so they'll keep doing it. This is the data you need to improve.
My favorite quote from Atomic Habits by James Clear:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it.
If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire.
To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."