you can love a character and still admit when they're wrong. i love regulus black but i acknowledge his flaws (he has none) and i can hold him accountable for his wrongdoings (he has never done anything wrong in his life) and call him out on his actions (which are always right)
IM FUCKING SAYING SOMETHING. if you dont like jily, thats fine. but if ur reason is “jily is too straight”, thats not fine. no matter WHAT ur hc is, thats just blatant bi/pan erasure, bc the idea that “man + woman = het” just adds to the stigma that bi & pan ppl arent gay enough.