Chef Kolgar

All life is fermentation - Raider for @dayglowguild

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

@_mel_ancholy In Lotto we prayge 🙏

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

No one is coming to save you, so learn to walk by yourself.

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

I'm a very forgiving person, so if I stop talking to you, then you really did too much.

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You cannot immediately unlove what you loved unless you never loved it to begin with.

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

One of my biggest mistakes was sending all those paragraphs, thinking that talking it out was going to fix anything.

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

I don't like this emotional rollercoaster...but if this is what I need to live my best life and be with the people that really value me, then so be it.

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

Someone who truly values you doesn't risk losing you in the first place.

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

Never forget that people will turn you into whatever they need you to be so that their internal narrative can make sense.
Ego is a crafty deceiver. Read that again a few times if you need to.

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Trust is built on consistency, honesty, and emotional safety over time. It's the belief that another person will act in good faith toward you— that they'll keep their word, protect your vulnerability, and consider your well-being.

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

You don't owe repeated grace to people committed to repeating harm.

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Healthy effort is showing up, caring, and investing. Unhealthy effort is clinging, over-explaining, or forcing something that doesn't want to fit. Learn the difference, and you'll know when to stay and when to let go.

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

You can love someone with your whole heart, whether platonic or more, and still need to let them go. Whether your values, needs or understanding of each other doesn't align, sometimes the bravest thing you can do is take yourself out of it and go your own path.

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

Communication and transparency are two of my biggest values...if you can't do those things, miss me on sight.

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

It takes a metric fuckload for me to give up on a friendship. So when it happens, trust that it is for a very good fucking reason.

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

@AbbadonLive Huge! Congrats!

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

@sydragosa Slaaaaaaaay

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

Nothing like having to see a failed connection in passing every morning for the whole next month 🙄

[Chef Kolgar @polrbaerchef]

@OldManPhy Attaboy