Updated Polycule:
Me: Zoo, enby bi
A: boyfriend, cishet man
SA: long distance girlfriend, enby trans lesbian
S: partner, pan cis man
C: boyfriend, enby bi
D, M: A’s wife and other gf respectively
R, J: S’s other partners
S and C are also dating
SA said I love you to another person last week and they’re not defined as gf/gf but basically are and they spent the day together and I’m really happy for her
Had a really lovely date last night with someone I accidentally ghosted back in July. But it was really great, we made out in a gay bar and spent the night together. I rly like them and I hope I can see them more often
I had an ammaaaaaaaazing discussion with SA about poly yesterday. We talked about boundaries and I told her about my other people and she was really receptive and supportive and said she may even try out seeing other people too!!! I’m over the moon
SA is mono, which has been a learning curve for me. At first she didn’t want to know anything about my other partners, and expressed that maybe she’d eventually like to know names or how many. Which made me kinda sad? But recently she said she’d be open to knowing more-
“As much as I’m willing to share.” Tbh I have no qualms about sharing intimate details with strangers, so maybe not that much to start, but I’m excited that she’s willing to know more. I wanna share this part of my life with here more.
I bought my girlfriend a cute necklace and it got delivered today so I’m waiting for her to get home from work and it is SO. HARD. to not hint at something waiting for her or anything.
I had a vvvv successful first date this weekend, and we’ve already agreed to like, two more dates? And he just asked if I wanted to go pumpkin picking?? This is Too Good and I’m nervous