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Do you know the absolute sickest dynamic in modern dating?
It is the illusion of endless options.
Nobody is actually building anything solid anymore because everybody secretly has a "roster" in their DMs.
The moment a relationship hits a normal, human roadblock, an argument, a financial dip, a slight misunderstanding, instead of communicating and fixing it, they just pick up their phone and reply to someone else's Instagram story.
We have become a generation of window shoppers. People will confidently throw away a 90% genuine connection just to go entertain a 10% fantasy, and then cry on the timeline about being lonely.
Allow me to add more context to this:
From a very young age, when I got my own space in my parents house, till when I moved out, I started living like this.
I handled everything myself. I cleaned my space, washed my clothes, cooked my meals; I’m actually a good cook—and ran my errands. I was completely self-reliant. If something needed to be done, I did it myself. I don’t ask for help. I enjoyed my own company, and when I started sailing, it intensified the solitude. It made me feel strong and in control.
But here’s the downside: when you get used to doing everything alone, relationship with a woman becomes difficult. Letting a woman into my space felt less like companionship and more like an intrusion of my privacy. I had grown too comfortable being by myself.
My mindset was this: anything you can do for me, I can do for myself. I was overly guarded. Asking for help felt like weakness. Allowing someone to support me made me feel vulnerable. I had to unlearn that. I had to learn how to open up, to share space, to accept help without feeling like I was losing control.
Self-reliance and solitude have their strengths. You’re less likely to be disappointed because you expect little from others. But if you’re not careful, it can isolate you. And once it settles in too deeply, it becomes hard to let anyone close.
They will soon cvt your leg, keep drinking tea and living on ‘diabetics.’ Every morning by 8 a.m., you’re making bread and eggs with very thick tea while your mates are outside going to the gym, working, or trying to make a living. You don’t want to fast? Don’t worry.” — A gym expert blasts netizens over their bread and egg addiction.
When he saw his father carrying his mother in his arms, he also started carrying his sister in his arms.
Children first take their families as an example..