Tiping your office security N1k for buying your lunch, is not you doing him a favour. He earned it. If e easy, stand up from your seat and go get the food yourself. Calculate the financial cost of the stress of going the distance to get the food and back.
If you want to do him a favour, give him money for no reason. Someone would do you a favour, but you would see yourslf as the one doing them a favour because you earn higher than them and don't respect them.
If you send money to your colleague that does the same work with you and asked them to please get you lunch on their way back from wherever they were going, you see it as them doing you a favour because you respect them. You don't see it as a favour done to you when it is done by the office security or cleaner because you don't respect them. If you treat these people well and respect them, they will be happy to do things for you. You've become entitled to their help that you now expect them to use their money to fund your lunch.
My security does errands for me, and every errand comes with a tip. That is thank you for doing this because it is not his job. Favour is when I give him money for no reason which happens often or when he has special needs and makes a request and I give him money. You need to start respecting people as human beings, not by how much they earn. This thing is a common problem in our society.
Yesterday I made a post about the ordeal women passing through when held captive in bandits camps and a lot of emotional men and women came attacking me - smiles.
Under the comments were lots of questions
Are you saying if they kidnap your mother that's what they'll do to her?
Why are you sharing this on media and how do you expect the women to feel after seeing this post?
How do you expect husband's of kidnapped women to feel?
This is exactly why these bandits are succeeding.
A few months ago I was traveling and I got talking with a guy inside the vehicle. My dear, since that day I told myself god forbid these guys called banditry anywhere.
According to him, they were abducted along Kogi Abuja road. The full bus emptied 18 passengers. 6 guys and 12 ladies just 2 average old women were among the passengers.
Among them was a guy and his babe traveling together. So while leading them inside the bush the teenage kidnappers started touching one of the Bebe's inappropriately and she happened to be the babe to that guy. Seeing how these small boys were attempting to abuse his babe, the guy wanted to protest against their inappropriate touching and piam...one of the guys behind ran his dagger through his throat and he fell splashing blood everywhere. That's how these guys strip his babe right there, took turns having her while the guy bleeds to death right before them. They take turns while others stand guard.
He said the 8 days he spent with them inside the bush before his ransom was paid, there is no night those guys don't have the ladies. Like they are animals that don't get tired. They can go 4 times a day just having fun.
There are countless stories like this. Many stories of young girls who by themselves told their families not to bother paying their ransom cos they can't live with the experience they've had inside the bushes. Some come out and remain secluded forever. Now you imagine a man and his wife abducted and these guys will be gang wrapping the wife while the husband listens and watches?
For those of you asking how do I expect the husbands of kidnapped women to feel like sharing my story, I want them to feel pained so they'll wake up from that their docile self. I want them to imagine the experience of children having their wives and daughters so they will get up and demand an end to all of these.
As for those asking if that's what they will do to my mother if they pick her, YES. They can even attempt the worst that's why I keep sharing such information like these with mom, my wife and siblings so they'll be careful out there. Oh, yes, if they catch you, your mother or sisters or daughters too that's what they will do to them so get up and let's stop this one and for all.
As for those saying such posts like this aren't supposed to be shared on the media, my dear, if you actually believe nappers pick their victims and stay with them in the bushes for days and months before without touching them you need a mental evaluation.
Posts like these need to be shared so everyone will know the level of evil we are dealing with. If bandits can pick a woman, 6 of them having turns with her and even forcing her to moan like she is enjoying it then video it and post it on media, are you not a fuul for telling me such things like these are not supposed to be shared?
The bandits do all of these just to put fear in your minds and make you docile thinking they own a monopoly of màdnèss. The day we all get up and say enough is when all these will stop
Not talking about it doesn't mean it's not happening. Stop being emotional and wake up Nigerians.
#Nigeria #Amen #Sharia #Perez
VDM is 100% right about what he said. My own experience was brutal.
During my abduction, I experienced what can only be described as slavery in the hands of bandits. After my family struggled to gather ₦15 million and other items they demanded, we thought the nightmare would end. Instead, the very next day, they increased the ransom to ₦55 million. That was when the real suffering began.
The group that kidnapped me had abducted 11 people. My driver was killed. Out of the remaining victims, 9 were eventually released, but I was not. The leader gave my family a five-day ultimatum to pay the ₦55 million or he would kill me.
On the 22nd day in the forest, a day before the deadline expired, he ordered two of his boys to take me somewhere else. We rode on motorcycles for hours through the night. When we finally arrived, I was handed over to another group. There, I met two victims who were already chained down. They handcuffed and chained me alongside them.
That was the last day I ever saw the group that originally kidnapped me.
The new group was even worse. I spent another 20 days with them, enduring severe beatings, torture, hunger, and constant threats. They demanded ₦50 million from my family. At one point, one of the bandits even collected ₦2 million through a bank transfer, yet they still refused to release me.
In the end, I escaped.
Sometimes when people discuss kidnapping online, they don't fully understand the horror victims go through. The physical pain heals, but the memories remain. No human being should have to experience such cruelty.
Honestly, this country's insecurity is heartbreaking and inhumane.💔😭🇳🇬
Reported demands made by the terrorists who kidnapped children and teachers in Oyo state:
1. ₦1 billion to be paid into an account in the Benin Republic.
2. Release of terrorists currently held in Agodi and Abolongo Prisons.
3. Two Hilux vehicles.
4. Amendment of Oyo State laws to enforce and introduce sharia law.
For those of you who continue to make excuses for terrorists, who refer to terrorists as your brothers and who applaud this lunatic government when they release these barbaric murderers back into society, please be aware that you will eventually be ruined by this same satanic ideology you endorse.
178,457 firearms, 88,078 AK-47 rifles, and 3,900 assorted rifles are reported ALL MISSING under IG of Police Egbetokun.
In a country where police and the army are under-armed, you have “missing ammunition” and terrorists who are overarmed.
Do the maths.
If you can see this tweet, please know that your social media pressure is important.
Terrible news and the horrible state of governance can be depressing but please don't get tired of speaking up.
On here, we are truly the 4th arm of the government.
Online pressure works.
Fulani Terrorists Declare War Rooted in Prophet Mohammed's Jihad Teachings, Demand Nigerians Convert to Islam or Face Death
Fulani terrorists have reportedly declared that their war is rooted in the teachings of Prophet Mohammed on jihad, urging every Nigerian to convert to Islam or continue being slaughtered. The declaration has raised alarm among religious and community leaders.
Critics are questioning why some groups still claim to be proud citizens of Nigeria while terrorists openly plan to Islamize and kill.
The full names of the 46 kidnapped Oyo children. They are still in terrorist captivity as I type this tweet.
Pls share this post everywhere
Let their names be known worldwide.
Kindly lend your voice I beg you.
On today’s children’s day,
If this is all you do, you’ve done a lot.
By the way for those of you who are not aware, or maybe you are aware but you have forgotten, I just want to remind you:
When the terrorists went to Ogbomosho few days ago and kidnapped 45 people, they kidnapped 2 year old kids.
Read that again:
2 year olds were kidnapped.
2 year old little kids are currently in the den of terrorists, as I type this.
Just incase we have forgotten as a country. I want to remind you all again.
"No light, no campaign. We no need two cups of rice again. We don tire. We need light oo."
Youths of Isoko, Edo state, march across the state to protest ahead of the visit of Seyi Tinubu's City Boys Movement.
This is how it should be! Raise am!👏✍️
Just a few days ago;
Hardened barbaric terrorists slaughtered a Nigerian army general and some colonels.
Today,
The Nigerian government (dis)honors the death of these brave soldiers by releasing more than 700 terrorists back into society.
TOTAL MADNESS!