People with HIGH STANDARDS gatekeep their personality. once they see malicious intent, their energy shifts permanently. they don’t argue, they don’t explain, they just remove access.
The final stage of healing is becoming a fucking weirdo again. Where you’re so powerful and so free inside yourself you just don’t give a shit. It’s all art. It’s all life. It’s all beautiful. That’s the fucking point.
every successful person I know is the same
slightly autistic
obsessed
insane
made tons of sacrifices
110% confident
relentless
delusional
there's no easy way to achieve shit and become someone....
Best advice that I can give anyone for the next 4-5 years:
- Don't ride motorcycles
- Don't do 'extreme sports' anywhere, especially third world countries
- if you need to go skiing, make it kindergarten-safe
Meanwhile, take care of your health. Because in 4-5 years our lifespans could be extended 20%-30%, easily live over 100, and have at 80 the energy of a current thirtysomething
We're living the timest of times!
Normalize being very direct, very straight to the point and very assertive. A surprising amount of tension in adult life exist because people avoid saying what they actually mean.