@lastvibes Time, attention & love are "bare minimum", if you have to beg for it - you're not with the right person. Your person will put all efforts for you effortlessly.
How to lose a guy in 10 days (2026 edition)
•tell your friends about him
•respond fast
•care about him
•text him
•genuinely like him
Works like a charm, every time.
I left for bombay at 6.30 am like the hard working professional that I am & stopped the car at 7 am to make this reel as I’ve long realised that silence is not a virtue & one must speak up when they are disrespected. Yes if wrong things happen at any workplace that are against basic human rights, me & all of us should speak up. I don’t care about the personal trolling, I’m used to it last 5 years since shark tank but the purpose of this reel is to request all the proud Indians in this country to start speaking up when they see something wrong, out of humanity, out of patriotism. Jai hind. Now off to another joyful & complex day at work !
As a therapist, I want to tell you: “You loved him because love is in you. You had fun because you are fun. You felt happy because you are a happy person. You gave your all because that is who you are. You have a really beautiful way of loving, and you are going to be okay.”
I once heard a line from Shah Rukh Khan that stayed with me;
“Jab time aapka bura chal raha ho, tab zyada haath-pair maarne ki ya har cheez par react karne ki zarurat nahi hoti. Bas shaant ho kar baith jao. Bura time hai, woh apne aap nikal jayega. Jo bhi aapka kaam hai, bas woh karte raho, lekin panic mat karo, overreact mat karo, aur har problem ko zabardasti turant fix karne ki koshish mat karo.”
And honestly, this might be one of the most practical pieces of wisdom.
When things go wrong, our instinct is to panic, react, overthink, and try to control everything.
But many times the smartest move is simply patience.
1. Stay calm
2. Keep doing your work
3. Don’t overreact
4. Let the bad phase pass
Because time changes everything.
Sometimes the storm doesn’t need you to fight it, it just needs you to sit still until it passes.
As a therapist, I want to tell you: “You loved him because love is in you. You had fun because you are fun. You felt happy because you are a happy person. You gave your all because that is who you are. You have a really beautiful way of loving, and you are going to be okay.”
Sometimes you have to let people go, let them go on their journey without you. Maybe later down the road you’ll meet again. And if not it just means your part in their story has ended, and that’s okay.
I don't know who needs to hear this but
Sometimes you have to be really honest with yourself and say, I’m not loved here, I’m not appreciated, I’m not valued, I’m not heard, and I’m not seen.
Then walk away, stay away, and close the door for good.
You can give someone all your patience, loyalty, and love, and still watch them choose a version of life that doesn’t include you. You show up consistently, make excuses for their absence, and believe that if you love hard enough, they’ll eventually meet you where you are. But love isn’t proven by how much you’re willing to endure—it’s revealed by how willing someone is to choose you without being asked. When they walk away, it doesn’t mean your love wasn’t enough; it means they weren’t ready or willing to value it.
The hardest part is accepting that effort doesn’t guarantee alignment. You can be genuine, committed, and emotionally available, and still not fit into someone else’s future. That realization hurts, but it’s also freeing. It reminds you that your worth was never tied to their decision, and that the right people won’t require you to shrink, wait, or compete for a place in their life. Some endings aren’t failures they’re redirections toward the life and love that will finally choose you back.
She doesn’t know how to feel anymore. One moment, she thinks she’s healing. The next, she’s questioning everything about herself.
One moment, she’s laughing like she’s finally free.
The next, she’s holding back tears, trying to keep from falling apart. She just hopes that one day, or maybe someday, it’ll all make sense. Until then, she’s healing, stumbling, learning, and growing one day at a time.
A man didn’t wait for anyone.
At 1 AM in a Mumbai local, when chaos broke out as a woman went into labour and everyone froze
— Vikash Bendre stepped up.
He pulled the chain.
Got a doctor on video call.
And helped deliver a baby inside a train. 🚆👶
No training. No hesitation.
While a hospital had refused to help, a man did what the system wouldn’t.
He didn’t shout slogans. He didn’t seek praise.
He just proved — not all heroes wear uniforms… some wear humanity. ❤️