Buat semuanya yang suka terlalu keras dan gampang nyalahin diri sendiri 🫂
Jaejae nanya, di usia mereka sekarang, setelah berkali-kali mengalami sukses dan gagal, kenapa kalau sesuatu berjalan baik kita sering anggap itu cuma kebetulan, tapi begitu semuanya nggak berjalan sesuai harapan kita justru paling cepet nyalahin diri sendiri? Gimana caranya supaya kita bisa lebih “baik” sama diri sendiri?
Anne Hathaway cerita tentang tips dari seorang dokter. Ambil satu foto kecil diri kita, taruh fotonya, terus ucapin semua hal yang selama ini kita rasain tentang diri sendiri. Setelah itu, angkat fotonya dan coba ngomong hal yang sama ke dia.
Rasanya nggak akan bisa. Karena “dia” nggak pantas mendengar kata-kata sejahat itu. Kalau begitu, kenapa kita merasa diri kita sendiri pantes diperlakukan sekeras itu? 🥹
I do want to point out these are grown men in their late 20s and early 30s who can easily overpower S.Coups if they want to—
But they have also once been kids aged 13-17 who never grew out of their fearful respect for their then 17 y/o leader
They STILL see him that way 💯
Every time I see this video of Andrew Garfield taking to Elmo about grief, I start crying.
“I’m just thinking about my mom today. She passed away not too long ago. It’s actually kind of okay to miss somebody. Sadness is kind of a gift, a lovely thing to feel in a way because it means you really loved somebody when you miss them."
Let’s not forget this is the same Kara David who won a George Foster Peabody Award for ‘Ambulansiyang de Paa’ (2010).
SHE IS ONLY THE SECOND FILIPINO TO RECEIVE ONE OF JOURNALISM’S HIGHEST HONORS. 🎖️
이번 인터뷰에서 재재가 가장 하고 싶었던 질문과 앤의 해답
Q. 요즘 많은 사람들이 특히나 제 또래 여성들이 커리어에서 많은 성공과 실패를 겪곤 하는데 성공하면 스스로에게 요행이라고 말하고 실패하면 항상 자신을 탓하는 것 같아요
어떻게 하면 우리 자신에게 더 친절해질 수 있을까요?
SEVENTEEN as a group never really grew out of this sort of fearful reverence and awestruck respect they have for S.Coups because they STILL react the same way even after all these years—even in a variety content
i saw an article called "make peace with your unlived life" and it really made me stop and think. so much of our lives is mourning for what we didn't become. It's a waste. we didn't waste any opportunities. what came and went was not meant for us