I want kids, but I don’t wanna get pregnant or give birth. Yeah, I could adopt, but I want them to be biologically mine. So basically, I want all the perks of being a parent with none of the pregnancy. In other words, I wanna be the father.
Her husband of 30 years had an affair and gave her HPV, which later developed into vulvar, cervical, and then anal cancer.
PLEASE embrace 4B. The risks of being with a man SIGNIFICANTLY outweighs any good.
Women, do not under any circumstances reside with or procreate with a man unless he is a generous provider.
I have seen too many women working double shifts while pregnant or getting a meager "allowance" out of "his" money like children. Absolutely not.
You'll be sewing crafts to sell on Etsy as a side hustle after the kids are in bed just for your own spending money if you don't procreate with a provider man.
I'm dead serious.
My appreciation for single mums has gone up 10x since I had my son. I haven’t got the foggiest idea how someone is supposed to do all of this by themselves. My hatred for deadbeat dads has also gone up 10x
I went to his place, and I cooked white rice cos he had some stew in his freezer, brought it out and there was one meat in it. So I told him there’s just one meat left but it’s in your food, I guess I just wanted to see what he’ll do, he ate it all. Everything, and this is someone that comes to my house and I bring out a fresh batch of goat meat in the freezer. Any way, I felt somehow, meat isn’t my problem; I had soup in my own house and I never cook without both meat and fish, it was just the lack of sensibility of it all.
So I decided to go to bed, he stayed up and I was awoken around 2am in the morning to him watching Andrew Tate on YouTube on a very very loud volume about masculinity. Till date, any time I remember I dated this person, I recoil to myself, last time I ever looked an Igbo man twice! I didn’t break up, I just stopped taking his calls and responding to his messages, he called and called, his brother called, he even tagged me to a post here and I untangled myself. Tufia!!!