PLEASEE date a man who believes in romance & a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing love letters, courting you,treating you gently, planning surprises and honouring your heart in every way he can...it's the little things that matter most
one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you're busy, say so. if you are not in the mood to talk, say so. if you are done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.
it really is sinister how women grow up on media that teaches them how to love men while men grow up on porn & gore that teaches them how to brutalize women
You know what’s so crazy to me… like really fcks with me… I’ve fallen out with friends, like bitches that I loved and woulda given the shirt off of my back… && I dead ass never did anything to these people. I asked my old friend one day when we were getting into it “what did I ever do to you?” Of course she couldn’t give me an answer. Nobody can ever give me an answer when I ask this question. Then when I see old pics in my phone of us, it hits harder cause I can think back to that day and how much fun we had. Then all I can think is, bitches are performative and never fckn liked me for real.