it's not empowering when my intern subordinate yang waktu itu masih sma diomongin sama kartap karena she doesn't wear any make up dan dibilang gaenak diliat. padahal dia rapi aja dan pakaiannya jg ga kumel. tell me it's "your body your choice" when in fact it is a system.
it's not empowering when my intern subordinate yang waktu itu masih sma diomongin sama kartap karena she doesn't wear any make up dan dibilang gaenak diliat. padahal dia rapi aja dan pakaiannya jg ga kumel. tell me it's "your body your choice" when in fact it is a system.
@syxaynecara@ragdolIz Why can't we do both? Beauty industry can be super toxic, tapi sekarang ini makin banyak perempuan yang dandan perawatan segala macem ya buat diri sendiri. It empowers them. It supports the feminism idea. Dan selama amanda zahra pakai campaign ini, she's a girl's girl
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pas intern ga pernah makeup samsek, pake kemeja panjang celana bahan rapi, tp dpt komen dr senior cowo: lu jelek bgt kek ibu2 dah, dandan kek
pas di kantor pertama jg pernah jd bahan ketawaan senior cowo krn dia liat bulu ketek rindang gw dr lobang lengan kaos (bgst emg ngintip)
it's not empowering when my intern subordinate yang waktu itu masih sma diomongin sama kartap karena she doesn't wear any make up dan dibilang gaenak diliat. padahal dia rapi aja dan pakaiannya jg ga kumel. tell me it's "your body your choice" when in fact it is a system.
practicing feminism means having to constantly sit with uncomfortable processes of learn and unlearning, challenging, questioning. feminism isn’t here to validate our choices, it’s here to liberate. it’s never feminism to begin with if it’s not revolutionary btw
and if u say “its empowering bc it makes me feel more confident” etc. then u’re not truly doing it for urself, u’re doing it bc u want to be perceived by others in a certain way. which is not necessarily a bad thing per se but we need to stop pretending its feminist.
i don’t buy the whole “makeup and self care are empowering” thing bc if u truly do it for urself and enjoy it, then it’ll just be another activity/hobby. u don’t say “showering is empowering” “using shampoo is empowering” that’s crazy, so how is using a lotion any different
Bener kata orang cantik itu luka, bahkan tidak menjelekkan wanita lain demi validasi laki laki pun tetap dianggap choice feminisim,
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