Neatness shouldn’t be a gender thing. As a man, take your hygiene seriously. It’s not just about wearing perfume and smelling good when you step out.
Keep yourself well-groomed. Shower at least once or twice daily, use deodorant, brush your teeth morning and night, and don’t ignore your tongue or bad breath. Trim your nails regularly, keep your hair neat, and don’t wear clothes that are stained, crumpled, or smell like they’ve been worn too many times.
Change your underwear daily, and your bedsheets regularly. Wash your towels often. Laundry shouldn’t be something you delay until you have nothing left to wear.
Your environment matters too. Keep your room and bathroom clean. Sweep, mop, and take out trash before it starts smelling. Wash your dishes immediately after eating. Don’t let your kitchen sink become a breeding ground for dirt and insects.
Your place shouldn’t look like where a mad person is staying, in such disarray. A man who is disciplined in his hygiene shows discipline in other areas of life.
After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.
I don’t understand this new style of omugwo.
A woman has just given birth, but somehow the person who came to “help” is waiting for her to cook, serve food, and make sure they’re comfortable.
What exactly did you come for?
Omugwo is supposed to take stress off a new mother, not add another adult to the list of people she has to take care of.
If the woman who just put to bed is still worrying about whether you’ve eaten, whether you’ve been served, and why you’re squeezing face because food isn’t ready, then you’ve completely missed the point.
If you’re not coming to lighten her load, please stay in your house. A woman recovering from childbirth should not be carrying you too.
Have we completely turned omugwo upside down, or is it just me?
My friend had her baby through a C-section in a teaching hospital and was discharged after a few days.
Her mother-in-law had already arrived for omugwo before she got home.
The moment she entered the house, her mother-in-law complained that she had been starving and told her to find something for everyone to eat.
Still weak from the surgery, my friend quietly went into the kitchen and started cooking.
A few minutes later, she suddenly fainted and collapsed.
She was rushed back to the hospital and had to be readmitted.
When she was eventually discharged, her mother came straight to the hospital and took her away.
She spent months recovering with her parents before her husband's family eventually came to apologize.
10 LIFE HACKS/ADVICES MANY OF YOU PROBABLY NEED AND SHOULD KNOW FROM EARLY ADULTHOOD:
1. Life is much better when no one knows anything about you.
2. Never force anyone to choose you. Never beg to be loved. Choose genuineness and naturalness.
3. If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and use you as a tool for achieving theirs.
4. Free yourself from the chains of society's advice. Most of them have no idea what they are doing.
5. Your are at peace with yourself when you mind your own business.
6. Life WON'T wait for you to be okay. Get up from your comfort zone and keep pushing.
7. Master your emotions. A clear and calm mind can handle any situation.
8. You need to take people for who they are, not want you want them to be. This way, you avoid disappointment and learn to live in harmony with your environment. You become happier.
9. Make sure you take care of yourself cosif anything happens to you, the world would move on.
10. Be smart enough to create your opportunities. Don't wait for them to come to you. Working to create them is a form of PRAYER which will be answered someday.
Spread this if you found it helpful. Someone might need it on their journey to maturity.
If you are a graduate and already making money and you're dating a university girl.
I'll not pity you when you find out that she's cheating on you.
The university is where young men are supposed to find their future wives.
But you want to be intimidating them with your money.
There are other working class women like yourself that you should be dating.
But you want the ones that will be calling you to give them money for pads, food, hair and even airtime.
You cannot go and date the ones that do not necessarily need your money for survival.
32 year old you dating a 21 year old university girl.
I agree that most of them are greedy and want the baby girl life.
But it will not mostly go down well for you.
Let them go through the phase with their fellow university men.
If you missed meeting your wife while you were in the university, that's your fat luck.
Let them be and face ladies in your class or social cadre.
If you feel like fucking them, go ahead.
But don't go forming relationship with an obviously "handicapped" girl and be feeling like you have gotten the next best thing to slice bread.
You know what you're doing.
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To the celebrities crying on camera, this week.
You're close to the people in power. You have access to them. Please tell them.
The terrorists who kidnapped those children and their teachers, released this video.
They're scheduling another execution.
The men are silent. The Nigerian men with 2 hands and that are physically fit but cry that "it's a taboo for men to enter the kitchen in their family and if they do, they will become blind" are quiet.
God bless this man. It is his mindset and you can see he was raised right and imbibing this into his sons as well. He is creating emotional and physical touch points with his children which they can never forget because these will form part of their core memories.
How will these children ever forget or neglect their father when he is a present father? How will their mother or anyone else manipulate them to hate their father?
Not those absent married, single fathers who think their sole responsibility is to provide.
Wishing his family the best!
Even though you have a genuine reason not to help.
Man is still everywhere doing everything.
The real definition of marriage is "teamwork."
God bless this man.
He carried them with love and care.🥹
Please invest in a tongue scraper.
The consequences of not having one - reflects in your breath, your sneezes and your coughs. 🙏
Your love language is early morning kisses - your partner is someone's child.
Invest in a tongue scraper.
INVEST 👏 IN 👏 A 👏 TONGUE 👏 SCRAPER.
Dear Nigerian women,
When you want to give head, make sure it isn't to a dirty boy.
Dirty boys don't deserve head.
When you dip your head downwards, inside his boxers should smell like fresh clothes.
If it is smelling like locust beans - crush his ego, tell him.
@Wizarab10 And they're ridiculously cheap. 5K go run at least 12 to 14 boxers.
You don't even need to buy fancy briefs - nobody dey see am and your babe no go send.
Haba. Woman go suck you finish, carry halitosis. Lmaoooooo.
A grown man in his 50's wakes up on a Monday morning - proceeds to slide his hands inside his boxers, sniff two drags and continue to massage until he gets an erection, grabs a glass of milk, stuffs air in his diaphragm refusing to breath - to prove what point?
When you sit beside us in the church, at work or in public transport - the stench from your crotch seeps out. We perceive it.
It has one of the most unique male-universal musty smell. It smells like feinted hydrogen sulphide.
Your 3-days boxers is the culprit. Change them. 🙏
Everytime your woman gives you head - she walks away with crunchy pebbles all thanks to the good graces of your sandy balls.
Sometimes those pebbles are mushy chocolate, because your ass is waterphobic.
Wash your bumbum, you dirty bastard.
And change your fucking boxers. 😭