A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what’s even worse? A man who pretends to be a good person, when in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
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→ you became so defensive that even genuine support, or new beginnings now feel suspicious to you
→ there’s a pattern here of clinging to heartbreak so tightly that you no longer know who you are outside of what hurt you
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A narcissist is an emotionally wounded child in an adult body. You’re not dealing with a full grown person when you argue with them, reasons why it’s always draining.
They’d gaslight, claim to be the victim, defend, etc cos their brains haven’t matured enough to attain empathy and emotional responsibility, so don’t waste your precious time, simply don’t engage them
A narcissist’s timeline:
Love bomb you.
Play house with you.
Control you quietly.
Put you last.
Drain your confidence.
Play the victim when you react.
Then rewrite the story like they “tried their best.”
Meanwhile, you were carrying the relationship alone.
He cheated because HE was unhappy, but SHE stayed unhappy for years and didn't cheat. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.
MEN go from one woman to another to a third and still aren’t satisfied. Because they aren’t satisfied due to their SICK mentality.
She not mad because you wasn’t ready she’s mad because you dragged her back into pain she had already healed from. She’s mad because you tricked her into believing it was real. She’s mad because she trusted you when she knew better. And most of all, she’s mad because she wanted you to be different so badly. But you wasn’t.
A lot of men are not being ‘disrespected’ in their relationship, they are just being accurately confronted for the first time in their life.
If every time she names a pattern you hear it as an attack, you will keep turning ordinary feedback into destructive arguments. It is easier to label her as ‘disrespectful’ than is it to admit you have never learned how to be in a relationship where your comfort is not the main priority.
I remember sitting next to him while he scrolled through his phone, laughing at something. I asked what was funny and he said, “just memes.” Something told me to look, but I ignored it. Later that night, when he was asleep, I checked. It wasn’t memes. It was another girl sending voice notes, pictures, inside jokes. The kind of things we used to have. I didn’t wake him up. I just lay there next to him, realizing I was already alone.
@miriodere@thenihiin Unfortunately, if we were in the 90s, and this was Jerry Springer, I would believe that, but considering that we live in a society where advertisement is literally at the peak of our fingertips, it's very unlikely that he felt the need to have the advertise himself this way
@natty_1012@thenihiin Literally! He looked just fine to me I think she was just being caddy because she specifically wanted that man so she thought that it was cool to dim the other man's light to build and boost that other man up ego wise but it did the reverse effect