November NO’s 🍂🤎
NO to entertaining people out of loneliness.
NO to going back to what God helped us leave.
NO to ignoring red flags because we like somebody.
NO to situationships and almost-relationships.
NO to accepting breadcrumbs.
NO to chasing inconsistent people.
NO to confusing chemistry with compatibility.
NO to breaking our boundaries for temporary attention.
NO to comparing our timeline to everybody else’s.
NO to neglecting our bodies, minds, and spiritual lives.
NO to procrastinating on the things we keep praying about.
NO to negative self-talk.
NO to shrinking ourselves to keep somebody comfortable.
NO to sacrificing our peace just to have somebody.
NO to letting loneliness make decisions for us.
Y’all be so scared to delete people off your page because you don't wanta look pressed… NOT ME ! Fuck OFF MY PAGE heaux ! Normalize deleting people off your social media that don't like you, don't clap for you, don't support you, NEVER like shit, just sitting & watching 🫤!
Life has made me so quiet these days. & not even in a bad way. In a selective way, a more discernment based way! I'm so thankful for all of it. the highs, the lows, the blessings, the lessons, the setbacks, the comebacks, the hate, the love. everything!