tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
I strongly believe if your laying up with a 🥷 you shouldn’t be asking nobody for anything. Ask that nigga. And if he can’t do it both y’all need to be single until yall get yall self together.