and if love ever finds me again, i hope it's with someone who thinks about how their actions affect me,someone who considers my feelings before making choices and values my peace as much as their own because I'm not here to survive love again, I'm here to finally live it
i think the deepest love language is someone learning your patterns. knowing you don't text back when you're sad. knowing you go quiet before you cry. nobody told them. they just paid attention.
God, please put better people in my life. People who mean what they say and show it through their actions. I’ve spent enough time giving chances to people who only showed up when it benefited them. Enough time overlooking things I should’ve paid attention to from the start.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
i don't wanna "win" the argument or feel "right". that's not the point. i just wanna feel like we've come to an understanding on the issue at hand. i want both of us to walk away feeling heard & understood. gemme that & i promise it's me & u 4L