We didn’t end on good terms. We ended on your terms. I didn’t choose to let you go you chose to let me go. You gave up on us while I was still trying to hold on, willing to cling to what little remained just to keep you close a little longer.
My heart feels like it’s permanently broken. These last 3 years the betrayal I’ve experienced got me fucked up in the head. Hard to trust. Hard to not question people intentions. Hard to get close to people. 💔🥺😞
When I leave people alone, I sincerely feel like I’m giving them what they want. ‘Cause ain’t no way, you did what you did & expect me to believe you still want me around!!!
Breakups hurt, yeah. But you know what hurts even more? Staying. Staying and trying to “make it work” with someone who has shown you over and over that they don’t value you, don’t prioritize you, and don’t care about your feelings. Begging for bare minimum. Hoping they’ll change. Ignoring the proof right in front of you. That kind of pain drags out way longer than a breakup ever could. Sometimes the real heartbreak isn’t losing them it’s realizing you stayed too long trying to convince someone to love you the right way. THAT’S what really hurts.
Micro cheating is cheating. If you're talking to someone else without your partner knowing, then that's cheating. If you're going out with someone who's not a friend or not blood-related and your partner doesn't know, that's also cheating. If you're joking around with someone in a flirty way, that's cheating too.If you're flooding someone's inbox with messages without your partner knowing, that's cheating as well, especially if you're deleting the conversation because you don't want your partner to get mad. Well, that's also cheating, darling.
When I leave people alone, I genuinely think I’m giving them what they want. It’s no way you did what you did & expected me to believe you still wanted me around.
i’m the definition of living in your truth idgaf what nobody gotta say about me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yall ain’t nobody to prove ANYTHING TO , i do shit with a smile on my face ! i got no regrets this MY LIFE
Snap out of it twin. That's not heartbreak. Heartbreak is losing someone who loved you correctly.
You lost someone who gave you anxiety, inconsistency, and the bare minimum while you gave them everything.
cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
can we PLEASE normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you BUT i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
My favorite thing about relationships is reconciliation. I love facing conflict head on, we talk about it. Take full accountability. Apologize and then come back to the center of love. All that passive aggression, Secret animosity or pretending like there is no problem when there is, is wild to me. I don't even like holding grudges. Like, once we discuss it Let's make up and move on especially if it wasn't even that deep.
I'm grown enough to admit im not the easiest person to love. Life put me thru a lot, so yea...i overthink, i get triggered real quick, i shut down, and sometimes i don't even make sense. I'm sensitive as hell & i need patience.
But one thing about me?? MY LOVE IS REAL.
getting cheated on & not knowing you getting cheated on will change you. getting lied to & not knowing you’re getting lied to will change you. Getting done any kind of way that ain’t right will change you. I commend people that can just not care or stay overly sweet after people continue to hurt them & let them down fr. Hurt makes you angry, triggered, annoyed, a change your attitude fr. Cause, you really didn’t have to do me that. & you really played me so good to the point I couldn’t even see through you.