Yesterday morning, while we were getting ready for church, my husband kept coming into the room.
The first time he said, you smell so nice. A few minutes later, he came back. You smell like candy.
I just smiled and continued getting ready.
Then this man came back again. This time he looked at me and said, I want to eat candy.
Sir…….we are getting ready for church. And this is where your mind decided to go?
Sometimes I wonder if we’re both in the same marriage because this man can turn the most innocent compliment into a completely different conversation in under 30 seconds. 🤣🤣
Adulthood literally means working your job while working on your mental health, while managing relationships, while taking care of your physical health, while supporting your family, while practicing self care, while chasing personal goals, while working.
Give birth wisely
You see that your 300 - 500k monthly salary?
You can save from it in 2 years and take your 1 or 2 kids on a vacation
The African mentality that kids must suffer like back of slippers must end in our generation
Sometimes you are not poor
You too born
sometimes I wonder what happens to the ego of the woman who did everything right when she finally realises that noone is above the program.
I mean the woman who a wife material, who is not a whore, who cooks, cleans, washes, raising kids without complaining.... the one who believes that being this type of a woman makes her better than other women.
what happens to her when a man still does her dirty... especially if she openly criticized other women for not being as good as her.
I feel like it would send me into psychosis.💔
My wife had to be away on official assignment for three weeks, she was worried because senior man is just barely four months old and we don't have anyone living with us and couple with the fact that our first daughter just had a surgery. Things have been tough and the economy is not smiling and so we are both working hard to keep the family going.
She was worried and almost cancelled the trip, but I knew we needed the trip as the allowance from it could sort some important things so I told her to go I will take care of the children since senior man was not on exclusive breastfeeding. On the day of the trip I could see the tears in her eyes which she was struggling to hide but I assured her not to worry. She had to carry breast pump along so she can be pressing the milk out until she returns.
It been almost two weeks already and I been the one taking care of the three girls and senior man and we are all fine. Truly I have been exhausted because I have to also managed them along side my official responsibility which can be quite demanding too.
All I can is that it is good to marry and an understanding and supportive partner. This my baby have been with me through thick and thin and Omo she deserves every sacrifice that I can make. Being a present father has also been very helpful in moments like this.
@ImANorthernGirl make una come tell me thank you
@omgsidewalks Few days ago, my mom asked me, “You have not started doing anything yet?” I already knew the reason behind that question 😂. When I told my husband, he said, “E don tey wey you send money nah.” 😂
My baby is having my baby… for the 3rd and final time! 👀❤️
If you ever see another post like this in the future, just know your boy got caught slipping. 😂
Wifey said she wanted a maternity shoot, so I said, “Say less,” dusted off the camera, and came out of retirement for the day.
Watching our family grow has been the greatest blessing. Love this woman to the moon and back. ❤️
@MarinatedTurks Sometimes I see big accounts tweet things I know could bring me visibility if I engage, but if it doesn’t resonate with me, I’ll just scroll past. Not every engagement is worth it.