understand that just bc you're a genuinely good person doesn't exempt you from life. shit is going to happen, bad things, good things, things you hate, things you love.. but never change, never stop growing, healing, learning, being you, etc.
Hardest pill to swallow is realizing people DO NOT CARE, they'll hurt you & really go on about their lives not even slightly affected about what they did to you or how you feel. Regardless if it's friendships, relationships or family.