@pheebclaire i had to unlearn my over explaining habits tbh. we tend do it to self regulate our emotions & to prevent misunderstandings and rejection from the other person. it helps a lot bc u can just give a straight yes or no answer and if they want an explanation they'll ask for one yk
@keekfortheworld u don't have to go down the traditional route. start with why u would even want to learn money - what kind of life do u wanna live, what would ur day to day look like, how much money would u ideally (not realistically) make, what house would u live in etc. and just work backwards
a woman will recount a time a man violated her boundaries and you can immediately tell what type of guy violated women similarly because they’ll start calling her “dangerous” and getting defensive on behalf of a man they’ve never met.
i have an interview in 2 hrs and i made the mistake of having coffee and vyvanse at the same time & now it feels like i'm having a heart attack #why did i do that
@moonlighba3e unfortunately there's nothing you can do to change them. u can only change/improve yourself, and that creates a ripple effect on the people around you.
"Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves."