College exams be like
"NOTHING IS ALLOWED!! YOU ARE OUT IF YOU BREATHE TOO HARD! 30 MINUTES!!" (Easiest exam in your entire life)
"Books, notes, calculators, phones and computers are all allowed to use. You can even call your loved ones. 4 hours. Good luck" (Abondon all hope.)
Get yourself a partner who isn't afraid to set boundaries and make it clear where their loyalty lies. Someone who will choose your relationship over outside opinions, protect your peace, and stand up for you even when it's uncomfortable.