Jurassic Park is one of those rare perfect films because you have all the amazing dinosaur action stuff, but also, anchoring it emotionally, you have Sam Neill, who starts off as a miserable jerk but then discovers a different side to himself, as the world's best (surrogate) dad.
Nothing will ruin a friendship faster than watching your friend showing up for other people in a way they don’t show up for you. You have the capacity, just not for our friendship.