If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️
Nobody claps for a man while he is building. His family doubts him, and friends disappear. Then one day, the results speak, and everyone acts like they believed in him. Crazy life.
When GOD wants to turn a boy into a man.
He doesn't comfort HIM.
He crushes him with failure, betrayal, loneliness, heartbreak, and rejection.
That's not a punishment.
It's a FORGE.
Highly recommend letting people know you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially if you're a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.. let mfers know you can go from 0-100 real quick.
Major cheat code for life: Be fully where your feet are. When you're at work, work. When you're with family, be with family. When you're resting, rest. Most people are physically present and mentally everywhere else.
Until something happens to you, you may think you're very careful, very responsible, very smart, very religious, very mature, very private, and always in control. But life can surprise you and show you that things are not always as easy as they look from the outside.