I went to work, came home and Trained in the gym for an hour and a half, came back upstairs and cooked dinner washed my hair while listening to music. I look up and it's 11 PM and I haven't been on TikTok once. I feel great
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgement. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Sometimes I forget the life I'm living now is the life I used to think was impossible. Having my own space, paying my rent on my own, 24 hour gym access, having professional trainers and coaches that believe in me. Like who am I
Just ended a relationship because it hit me that if any of these things ever happened he would be the last person I would depend on. And idk that stuck with me
Date him like you will one day be 9 months pregnant, exhausted and completely dependent on him. Date him like your parents just passed away and he is your only support system. Date him like the world is ending and he is your main hope for you and your familyโs protection and survival.
Would you still choose him?
@leevzo@YourPrimePath Can you go deeper into this? I know you said you went through it a year back. Do you have any suggestions for someone who feels like the people around them are not sharing the same interests but that new life has not presented itself yet?
you have to move through life and love assuming the answer is yes. assuming people want to see you, help you, hire you, hug you, love you. otherwise, every bid for connection or growth will be laced in fear and desperation. and people can smell that from a mile away.
If youโre a young lady with plans to settle down soon, the SINGLE major quality you should look for in the men you date is โdisciplineโ
Is he a disciplined person or not?
And how can you tell discipline in a person?
Easy, what is something theyโve been doing consistently for a long time.
Something outside their job that they do not necessarily get paid to do, they simply do it to show that they care about themself and their future.
Eg they maintain a fitness lifestyle.
Not just being a gym bro, because a lot of those gym bros are doing it for vanity ie they just want to look hot.
Is he doing it because he actually cares about his long term health and wellbeing or heโs for the summer body train?
Donโt be hooked on โis he stingy, is he generous etcโ those are not values you want to build a life on.
A discipline man is consistent
Heโs smart, caring and proactive
Heโs forward thinking and a natural provider.
Heโs a decent communicator because he doesnโt waste time on what isnโt aligned for him.
Thatโs the kind of man you want to have and raise kids for.
The opposite is an uncontrolled, impulsive, disorganized, rebellious type of man.
An embarrassment basically.
Maybe fun and spontaneous but ultimately an embarrassment.
Do you disagree?
I just want to be hopelessly In love with someone. That kind of love that makes you feel like you can't breathe. I wanna stay up all night talking and laughing and then wake up in the morning and make him pancakes. That kind of love
Intelligence is a beautiful thing, I will not lie. There is something deeply attractive about a mind that can see patterns others miss, connect distant ideas, and explain the world with startling clarity.
But what I have found with many intelligent people is a curious tendency to confuse understanding with action. They become endlessly patient with circumstances while doing absolutely nothing to change them.
And so their intelligence, rather than serving as a catalyst for movement, becomes a sophisticated defense mechanism. They can explain why now is not the right time. They can construct elaborate arguments for waiting a little longer. They can intellectualize their inertia so convincingly that even they begin to mistake hesitation for wisdom.
But intelligence without ruthless execution is, in many ways, just cosplay.
It is the performance of competence without the burden of consequence. The intelligent man continues to defend his position because intellectualizing about an issue is simple; the real work lies in summoning the courage to act.
And that, to me, is the greatest limitation of intelligence on its own.
It's crazy when you think about it, today is the tomorrow that you were worried about yesterday. And here you sit worrying about tomorrow while making it through today.