if youβre a sensitive woman, you better involve yourself in charity work or helping/working with children. pour all your love and nurturing into the poor, the weak, and children. itβs better than feeling motherly toward evil people just because you see the child in them.
Imma keep it π― I genuinely believe this is a night of the living dead situation: The best actor won the role and he happened to be black π€·πΎββοΈ
Backrooms is racist film. Itβs technically brilliant, but racist. And itβs a shame during a time where Black studies is being eliminated on college campuses because I fear people are overlooking the obvious tropes and racist callbacks the film ridiculously displays.
people pleasing will literally leave you with nothing but high blood pressure, resentment and auto immune diseases later in life, as a woman itβs important to express yourself and stop suppressing your anger
People lack accountability, then say, "You could've talked to me." No, I couldn't. You don't listen.
You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play the victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting, draining, and emotionally suffocating. Every time I try to speak, it feels like walking through a maze of blame where my words are used against me, my intentions questioned, and my emotions invalidated. I end up questioning myself, doubting my own perceptions because nothing I say lands without being turned into some justification for your behaviour.
no one talks about how draining it is when your mood constantly switches between "keep going, it will get better" and "i can't do this anymore, im about to give up." it's like living in emotional whiplash. one hour you're hopeful, the next you're spiralin