y’all be sooo “understanding” of mental illness until the person’s harder symptoms start to show and you don’t like it. then it’s “too much” or “i don’t get why you can’t control it”
Being in a healthy relationship has taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. When you wholeheartedly love a person, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality