Anyway, just want women around me to understand, you need to start aspiring towards financial independence with the exact same urgency society wants you to aspire towards marriage.
I honestly cannot stress this enough but please start living and enjoying your life. your life is passing by daily and all you’re doing is working, paying bills, and overthinking stuff you can't change. start traveling and treating yourself and start having fun with this life.
If you’re in the UK, please don’t allow the humble worker bee conditioning to play you out of your destiny. If there’s a creative vision you want to execute, execute it! Get that ball rolling. Bring it to life. Make a promise to yourself.
Just preeing stories on Instagram inspired a little and just remembered that in this creative industry/scene in the UK, the movers and shakers tend to be black women. Whether in PR, creative direction, production, journalism, content creation, event curation, it’s always them
College common room communing, audience perpetually teenaged, a lack of serious dialogue on anything, an infinite regress of dating as a topic, and a Peter Pan syndrome in terms of content created