major cheat code in life: be the one who reaches out. text first. call first. plan first. initialize first. most people wait to be chosen. be the chooser. connection requires initiative. friendship requires effort. love requires action. stop waiting to be picked. start picking. initiative is attractive.
Things im working on in 2026:
1) Dating (not going well)
2) Not overthinking and stressing about any small inconvenience (also going badly)
3) Being financially responsible (going even worse)
when i like someone i instantly start going too hard... i be too available, too giving, too loyal, too thoughtful, too reliable. i need to calm down & only be what someone is to me... that's my problem, i always love how i want to be loved hoping it gets reciprocated
falling out of love is one thing but slowly realizing your friend isn’t a good person/not in alignment with you and needs to be let go is a pain that isn’t talked about enough