@Stephisawizard Yeah, it sucks, if we are or not should not stop you from enjoying life, screw if we are here for a reason or whatever, don't think too much and enjoy what you have in front, best wishes!!
@DarthLux You should be the main person enjoying your b-day, if peace, calm and kitties is what make you happy so be it and enjoy it, screw the rest of the world, happy b-day in advance or late or idk, just be happy