Mind you, no one bullied your preference. We’re saying your preference is dumb. Your reasoning is dumb. And I now understand why there’s always so much alcohol in your dumps. I’d drink a lot too if I had to sit through a date with you.
It’s not the mouth that needs food, it’s the brain that needs mental nourishment.
...and sexism. There's no way that a man born in 1990 lose out on a job in favour of a women. We have had equal opportunities to everything from Kindergarten to University. Today's boy child is suffering over a past that doesn't favour him over the girl child anymore.
This is why you should be careful when people tell men that marriage is “just a partnership,” that male leadership is oppression, and that submission is slavery.
They’ll reject the idea that a husband is the head of his household until something goes horribly wrong.
Then suddenly the question becomes: “Where was her husband? Why didn’t he notice? Why didn’t he protect the children? Why didn’t he get her more help?”
So which is it?
You cannot strip a man of authority when discussing decisions, then resurrect his leadership role when it’s time to assign blame.
Nobody remembers “head of the household” when the conversation is cooking, cleaning, independence, or personal choices.
But when tragedy strikes, suddenly he was supposed to foresee everything, manage everything, and prevent another adult’s actions.
Men should choose wives extremely carefully not because a husband is responsible for every decision his wife makes, but because society may still judge him by the consequences of a household he was repeatedly told he had no right to lead.
You cannot demand equal adult agency and then assign one adult responsibility for the other adult’s choices.
Authority without accountability is privilege. Accountability without authority is a trap.
I have a theory that many young women are indifferent towards motherhood simply because they’re hardly exposed to babies. Your heart melts when you hold a baby. Maybe society should stop calling childfree women “broken” and question why motherhood is romanticized so aggressively.