Green flags:
• believes the hotel is as important as the destination
• gets you gifts without you ever needing to ask
• “I booked us a spa day”
• “I got us the corner booth”
• has a note in his phone with your wishlist of items, hotels, experiences, and restaurants you mentioned in conversation, and he’s working through the list
• has self-awareness in a public setting
• never rushes you out of a place you’re enjoying
• feels as cosy to your nervous system as a hotel bed
• honours the daily sacred 2-3 hours of ‘each on their own’ time on vacation
There’s something deeply attractive about a man who finds fulfillment in providing— not out of obligation or control, but instinct. He sees provision as an offering, not a transaction, and he gives because it brings him peace to know the woman he adores is well taken care of