Complaining to others and stressing over our problems will not solve them. The Almighty knows the best solutions to our problems. We just need to trust Him, seek His assistance and not anyone else. Keep asking Him. He will respond.
If men were given clay to create their own wives, some will finish the clay creating bums and boobs, some will keep some clay to create a side chick. And then there's us who will sell the clay and buy beer