@ladyalicegrey Actively engaging with me on mental and emotional levels and not just kink levels. Remembering and incorporating my needs and wants into a scene. Giving and receiving authentic touch. Sharing our experiences with others, acknowledging my service and my efforts to please.
@Alice_in_Dallas I get that a lot. When people see me in sub mode, I get people who say "You can't be a 'Twue Dom' if you submit." Or "I could never submit to anyone who could ever let themselves be topped." It sucks, but I have found that those kind of people don't deserve my top energy so...
Masochists understand that pain is not a sensation, its a vibration that permeates the entire body. A vibration that heals more than it hurts. A vibration that transforms the feeling of being hear and now into a oneness with infinite. Pain is a vibration that sets them free.